The Constitution
Not a terms-of-service nobody reads - a short, plain list of promises we're making before we ask you to trust us with something as personal as your social life.
Profiles show up newest-first, or however you sort them yourself. Nothing is ranked to keep you scrolling, and nothing decides who you should interact with.
No behavioral profiles, no algorithm, no data broker ever gets a copy of your activity. What you do here stays here.
Your messages are stored only so they can reach the other person. We don't mine them, sell them or browse through them: they're only looked at when a report or a safety problem calls for it. Each conversation only ever holds the most recent 500 messages for purpose of message history, so sending past that just ages the oldest one out for good.
If an ad ever appears here, it's the same ad everyone sees - never built from what you searched, said, or looked at. Collecting information is prohibited here.
Money can buy more image upload space or more ProfiRings creation slots. It can never buy visibility, priority, or an edge over anyone else. That line doesn't move as we grow.
Both sit right on every profile, no digging through menus. Blocking is immediate and silent. Reports go to a real person, not an AI filter.
Your profile is your page - your colors, your layout, your words. We give you the walls, you hang whatever you want on them. *But don't curse~! We want to be a nice happy community.
We'll tell you honestly what it costs to run this place, and ask for support the way a small shop does - never disguise a bill as a feature. Your support is our HP ^o^/
If you make a friend, find your people, or find your 💖 here, we will be happy with you. That's success - not a problem to be optimized away. We won't hold you here trying to engage you as much as possible.
Sort by newest, most active, or genuinely random: never a hidden ranking or another black magic.
We are the product, and you are the consumer, no vice versa.
This isn't a legal document - it's a promise made in public, on purpose, before the website started.
If we ever break one of these, you'll be able to point right back to this page and hold us to it.